Don't Hold My Head Down

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En tarkoita, että tahtoisin lukea pelkkää kuivakkaa asiatekstiä seksistä, ehei en ollenkaan, mutta jotenkin sellainen humoristinen kepeä vähän ”itsekriittinen” ja -tarkkaileva sävy on vaan niin väsynyttä. Just when I thought I figured out the reason for using a page long textbox, they pop up used in a completely different way a few pages later.

Taking time over sex is probably the one thing that I and my partner will try to stick to the most, while putting my finger in my anus for one minute a day while in the shower is probably something that I'll pass on, thanks all the same. Sitten se mutta: miksi siitä seksuaalisuudesta täytyy jotenkin aina kertoa niin hassunhauskan huumorin keinoin? A humorous, self-deprecating, and self-effacing but intelligent and inquisitive narrator takes us on a belated journey of sexual self-discovery that is both educational and liberating.

Without Holmes’ Bridget-Jones-esque timbre the book would risk coming off as just another banal think piece about female sexuality or a downright depressing report on the perceptions of female pleasure and bodies. But I wonder to what extent women of colour, women of varied levels of abilities, or transwomen, or gender queer women will relate to the book. Kolme tähteä annan siitä hyvästä, että kirja kuitenkin yhdistää kiinnostavalla tavalla yhteiskunnallista pohdintaa ja seksuaalisuuden tarkastelua eri näkökulmista. I’m clearly no expert as I have no children or plan for children, but I hope that Holmes’ honest discussion about post-partum sex and sexuality brings comfort and opens up the conversation among mothers and to-be mothers about what the fuck is actually going on. I appreaciate the author's frank way of talking about her sexuality, her honesty and enthusiasm for being experimental.

Publication dates are subject to change (although this is an extremely uncommon occurrence overall). Mas mete em cima da mesa, principalmente, a urgência em saber o que queremos, em dizer que não e em consentir e aguardar consentimento. Kinksters seem to be much better at things like communication, respect and equal distribution of pleasure.As a woman, I found that there were many times throughout this book where I found myself relating to what Holmes was saying, feeling, experiencing and expressing. Not really about sex at all - more about the entrenched patriarchal constructs that make it hard for us to enjoy pleasure like men can.