When He Leaves You

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So sorry to hear this..:( I have been with wife for 18 years and she wants a divorce. She is 39 and I am 50. I always thought , feared she may leave me when I’m older and it happened! We have two girls 5 and 8. I was a stay Hm dad for 3 years and I think it caused the divorce. We signed the papers last week. She is looking for a new Hm and we are still all in the same house. It is just devastating I’m loosing her and also won’t see my kids as much. She makes way more money then I do and she also said I smothered her. I still love her since I said I do. It’s very sad but I want her happy. If it’s being away from me, then I have no choice but to deal with this sadness. I am sincerely sorry to have read and felt your confusing, pain and patience in your situation. You seem quite smart and extremely able to do this. Really sounds like he is the one that will be missing out, just find yourself again. If one person leaves and isn’t willing to work on it, that’s one thing. But a committed couple can overcome any of these 5 “reason” and much more. You have described your situation and it is exactly as I feel. Sleep induced by mess (legal) and a fetal position. My wife left 11/15/15.

My friend has not moved forward with a separation agreement, or any movement with her husband in that way. She later asked me to move out the house to give her space as she could move in and she kept saying I was impossible to live with (yet managed for 5 years previously) I am doing my best to just not communicate with him. He said he found a small house in our town and just needs time. He has a lot of health issues. I don’t know if he has fallen for her, if it is a mid life crisis or what. I have cried more over the past eight weeks than during my entire life. But I am steadily going forward. I wonder if he even filed those papers. I think he is waiting to see about this house he is looking at. She has a steady job and will not leave it. Our two oldest sons, fifteen and nineteen are going to live with him. So it isn’t like he will be able to have her for sleepovers. They WOULD NOT like that at all. I have recently been told by my wife that she is divorcing me. I am totally devastated. We have been married 2 and a half years, and together for 4. We have a little girl of 3, and my two sons of 10 from my previous relationship. Until recently she was a loving stepmother to them.Regardless of what you have to do, pep talks with self, affirmations, etc. – just condition your mind to believe that you can do life without them in the picture. 3. Assign time to do specific things all-day

Reboot the physical activities you used to love . It could be anything, including swimming and even working out. 15. Travel Go live your life instead! Don’t give someone else so much power over your thoughts and feelings. Especially not some new guy you just started talking to.

6. Take care of yourself

With time, you’ll notice that you have already started from thinking about him to thinking about you. 3. Don’t try to take revenge. As much as you may not want to admit it, this is one common thing that happens in today’s world. Reports have it that there’s approximately one divorce for every 36 seconds that pass in America. This adds up to about 2400 divorces per day and about 16,800 divorces per week.